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Posted: Sun Jun 03, 2007 8:07 pm Post subject: Personal/Social Questions/problems? Ask Here! |
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If you have a social or Personal question or problem ask it here. If you don't feel comfortable with your personal question or problem you MAY PM(Private Message) me. _________________
-"That's Freak'N Classy."-
-Red
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Posted: Thu Jun 21, 2007 10:26 am Post subject: |
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I just thought I should probably know this, but what does RES mean?
You typed it in a couple of our RPs. I was like ... o.O _________________ N E S T E C 4 9 2
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Posted: Thu Jun 21, 2007 3:09 pm Post subject: |
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Reserved.
Incase I need to add anything later. _________________
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-Red
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Posted: Sat Jun 23, 2007 9:02 pm Post subject: |
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Oh, as in "this spot is reserved, don't type anything here cause I'm gonna do it later"?
I think I understand. _________________ N E S T E C 4 9 2
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Posted: Sat Mar 15, 2008 12:27 am Post subject: |
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This may be a bit serious to post in here, but I'm curious as to what people's opinions are.....
What is a good way of dealing with or overcoming Social Anxiety Disorder?
I ask this because I have it pretty bad, and it tends to get in the way of alot of things..... Just wanted to see if anyone else had advice, or knew where I was coming from.
Apologies if this was the wrong place to ask, or if it was inapropriate.... It said "personal/social" problems.... So.... Yeah.....
*coughs*
KTHXBAI. >>;; _________________ ....Until I put together a better Sig, this is what you get....
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Red Site Admin


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Posted: Sat Mar 15, 2008 6:08 pm Post subject: |
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| Xero-tan wrote: |
This may be a bit serious to post in here, but I'm curious as to what people's opinions are.....
What is a good way of dealing with or overcoming Social Anxiety Disorder?
I ask this because I have it pretty bad, and it tends to get in the way of alot of things..... Just wanted to see if anyone else had advice, or knew where I was coming from.
Apologies if this was the wrong place to ask, or if it was inapropriate.... It said "personal/social" problems.... So.... Yeah.....
*coughs*
KTHXBAI. >>;; |
Yes this is the right place to ask. Social Anxiety Disorder? ERMMMM...
As in you have difficulty being social able? Or nervous about being social?
Well, I kind of that that going for me, but lately my business class requires me to participate so I can get an A. Maybe set "social goals?" Like promising yourself that you will talk to at least whatever number of people today or choose to speak to a certain person then up the conversation each day to make you both comfortable. I hope this makes sense. And I hope I'm thinking of the right answer here. =_= _________________
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-Red
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Xero-tan Member

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Posted: Sat Mar 15, 2008 9:52 pm Post subject: |
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| Red wrote: |
Yes this is the right place to ask. Social Anxiety Disorder? ERMMMM...
As in you have difficulty being social able? Or nervous about being social?
Well, I kind of that that going for me, but lately my business class requires me to participate so I can get an A. Maybe set "social goals?" Like promising yourself that you will talk to at least whatever number of people today or choose to speak to a certain person then up the conversation each day to make you both comfortable. I hope this makes sense. And I hope I'm thinking of the right answer here. =_= |
Yeah, you got it mostly right.... I have an irrational fear of people and social situations. For me, I start having panic attacks just from walking around in WalMart. x_x;;; It's like, even though I know no one cares that I'm there, or is looking at me, or judging me, or whatever.... I'm still absolutely paranoid about it. The other day, I ended up waiting in the car and not going in, and still getting paranoid about the people walking past in the parking lot, to the point where I almost got out of the car to go hide at the river behind the store. >>;;; It gets really bad, because it's hard to explain to people about it. They think I'm making it up, or they try to comfort me with things like "nobody's looking at you, nobody cares" --- But in reality I know I'm being ridiculous, but I just can't stop from panicking. I tried to describe it as handing a tarantula to someone who's afraid of spiders and saying "it's harmless" and expecting them to just get over it.
What makes it even harder is, because my job is being a live-in nanny for a 1 1/2 year old, I really don't get a chance to go out much or have a social life. I grew up in this town, but pretty much everyone has moved away, so my only contact with friends or family is over the internet or via cell phone.... x_x;;;
I'm rambling. Sorry.
For the most part, I'm fine with people, so long as it's over the internet or some other 'non-personal' type of contact.... But it does filter in sorta.... Like I'm insanely worried that I'll offend someone here and be disliked or something... u_u;; _________________ ....Until I put together a better Sig, this is what you get....
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Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 2:46 pm Post subject: |
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You don't have to worry about that here. I mean, I already like you better than a lot of the people who have been here. X-D _________________
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-Red
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Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2008 8:46 pm Post subject: |
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| Red wrote: |
| You don't have to worry about that here. I mean, I already like you better than a lot of the people who have been here. X-D |
*smiles* ............Thank you. That makes me feel better, actually. I was really getting worried that I was being annoying, or that the fact that I really only have weekends free would bother someone, or..... Mayhap that I was too wordy or pretentious? x_x;;;;
But really, that does make me feel better. I can't wait to actually get started on here. --- Of course, that means that I'll have to hurry up and get that outline finished.... Which... dlkfjsdflj.... Writer's block. I know what I want to say and do with it, but the words for it just stopped coming out coherently. x_x;;;; I WILL FINISH THOUGH. And then it's all downhill -- in a good way -- from there! ^_^ _________________ ....Until I put together a better Sig, this is what you get....
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